TimestampWithTimeZone can not be bound

Clients that are still on Java 7 and can not use OffsetDateTime need a
way to bind TimestampWithTimeZone. Unfortunately TimestampWithTimeZone
can currently not be used as a bind parameter
The obvious way to bind TimestampWithTimeZone would be to use
PreparedStatement.setObject(int, Object). This does not work because
DataTye#convertTo currently does not check for TimestampWithTimeZone.

This commit fixes this by adding a check and conversion in
DataTye#convertTo and also adding a unit test.

#486: Support enum as user data type

Enum support

Fix headers format of MAVEN.md

Document recursive common table expressions

H2 supports recursive common table expressions. Unfortunately they are
not covered in the official grammar documentation so some people don't
know about it.

I had to reverse engineer the syntax by looking at the parser source so
it may contain errors. This commit does contain maybe not the greatest
documentation ever but I feel it's an improvement over the current
situation.

Fix fetch first rows only grammar

After some additional test for #476 and more checking with the source
code I found out that I make a mistake in the grammar. The
MySQL/Postgres and the Derby/Oracle syntax should be different
productions.

Document fetch first row(s) only

Fix doc generation

In order to make the doc generation for #476 working I had to fix some
errors in existing files. These cover

 - lines which are too long
 - incorrect indentation
 - invalid markup
 - missing javadoc

Since 1.4.177 H2 supports FETCH FIRST x ROW ONLY however this is not
reflected in the grammar documentation. This covers all the variations
of the syntax.

There are 3 `help.csv` but I believe I got the right one. Some of the
checked in files seem to have been automatically changed and I don't
know if I should have committed those as well.

Fixes #475

Add alias for RANDOM_UUID

Fixes h2database/h2database#467 Deadlock between Sequence.flush() and…

* Custom data types handler

* Updated doc, changelog, dictionary. Fixed review comment.

* Extended the custom types handler interface

* Fixed test

* Fixed review comments

* Added note on ABI stability of the feature to docs