Parse BINARY VARYING, BINARY LARGE OBJECT, and CHARACTER LARGE OBJECT

Assorted changes with SELECT output limitation clauses

Add limited support for MONEY and SMALLMONEY in compatibility modes

Use weak references in LIRS cache

make high water mark for non-resident queue size configurable

Include the META-INF resources in the resulting build.

Without that the sql Driver service file is not there.

Add system property to return OffsetDateTime from ResultSet.getObject()

Simplify execution flow in some places

Assorted changes in MetaTable