fix #499

1. db needs to be closed\n 2. remove DB_CLOSE_DELAY\n 3. test threads need to join before continuing

Fix h2 ROUND

use a set to keep track of the tables we need to analyze.
Perform the analysis after we have committed the main transaction, so we
don't hold table locks for any longer than necessary.

Lazy query execution support

TimestampWithTimeZone can not be bound

Clients that are still on Java 7 and can not use OffsetDateTime need a
way to bind TimestampWithTimeZone. Unfortunately TimestampWithTimeZone
can currently not be used as a bind parameter
The obvious way to bind TimestampWithTimeZone would be to use
PreparedStatement.setObject(int, Object). This does not work because
DataTye#convertTo currently does not check for TimestampWithTimeZone.

This commit fixes this by adding a check and conversion in
DataTye#convertTo and also adding a unit test.

#486: Support enum as user data type